Wednesday, May 05, 2010

Vietnam

In the beginning of May we took a six day family vacation to Vietnam. We spent the first couple of days in Hanoi, the country's capitol and second largest city. As one would expect, Hanoi was teeming with people, noise, dust, horns, and manageable chaos. I did not expect to see so many motorcycles (upon which families of 2-4 people were perched) weaving in and out of the orchestrated mayhem that are the streets of Hanoi. We spent most of our time in the Old Quarter and Hoan Kiem Lake area.

Vietnam is known as one of the top 5 cities in the world for street food, and foodies also recognize Vietnam for its local cuisine at the other end of the spectrum. Vietnam's most widely known dish is called "Phở" - a simple noodle soup (usually eaten for breakfast) made with chicken or beef. Carmen, Ani and I ventured out one morning to try some Pho Ga... Ani thought it was the best meal she had the entire trip. I was not entirely in agreement but it was well worth the walk, playing frogger with the cars and motorbikes in the process.

we escape to taste the local Pho... tastes like chicken? Ummmm, no... another street food venture

We spent some time around the Lake, meandered through the city and the Old Quarter, traipsed through some of the varied and local markets, visited the Temple of Literature with the girls, and treated ourselves to one of Vietnam's most famous cultural traditions, a "water puppet show." Here, puppeteers (hidden behind a screen) maneuver big, lacquered wood puppets in waist deep water, while a traditional Vietnamese orchestra and singers provide music, vocals, and the backstory to the action. The puppeteers are amazingly skilled and we were glad we took the time to see it.

our Pho Ga up close... The water puppet show.

After Hanoi, Hoian was a welcome escape from the city's frenzied pace. Hoian is a charming and still unspoiled little town on the coast of the East Vietnam Sea, home to one of the top beaches we've ever been. The girls had a blast in the ocean as well as in the gigantic pools. Vietnam is also known for its excellent tailors, and (Hoian in particular) for these brightly colored handmade lamps, which hang in various shapes and sizes from every storefront and alight the trees in a kaleidoscope of colors at night. The town was a beautiful little surprise: friendly, charming and welcoming.

Because the depth of my historical knowledge is embarrassingly shallow and U.S.-centric (I am trying to catch up), I was probably the only one surprised that in Vietnam, they call the war the "American War." There were a few situations, when the crowd in which we found ourselves learned we were Americans, I felt the air in the room suddenly drop 5 degrees. 90% of the Vietnamese people we encountered however were more than helpful and friendly to us as visitors in their country, and they welcomed us with open hearts and smiles.






Sunday, April 18, 2010

Carmen's scary day

Needed to blog this to remind myself that as this day was scary and difficult, yet things can always be much scarier and much harder. And just as Carmen broke her arm less than a month after moving to Singapore, she breaks it again just months shy of going home.

Broken bones heal and besides, the doctors in Singapore rock!

(Carmen attempted a "jump over the armrests of a chair" move, caught her foot, and landed hard on the hardwood floors.)

Below is is the break above her elbow (pre-surgery), and post-surgery with 2 pins.

P.S. Pins were removed and cast came off May 15... all is well.










Sunday, April 04, 2010

HAPPY EASTER!

A drizzly, rainy Easter day... but its always fun playing in the rain!


The Easter Bunny giving "bunny ears", and Tatum & Daddy, wet and happy.



BEIJING!

March 27-30 I took a trip to Beijing with 2 great friends
Tiffany and Chrissy. We scoured TripAdvisor and badgered friends for great finds, tips, advice, and/or warnings. We left husbands, children and most of our worries in Singapore and did our best to fill our brains and hearts with as much Chinese history, culture and experience as possible in four days.

Our driver, "Shane," a kind hearted, loud-talking young man we found in the local classifieds, was intent on giving his home town a good showing. His livelihood dependent upon us (i.e. “tourists”), he also did his best to make a buck, though we were fairly adept at ferreting out the most obvious scams (we are still unsure whether our crazy "chance" meeting with the Last Emperor's nephew, a famous Chinese calligrapher, was really divine luck or whether we were taken). It really doesn't matter as we had a lot of fun, and came away with a great memory of this meeting as well as our own personalized scrolls. For $50.


My favorite part of our trip was definitely hiking one section of the Great Wall known as "Mutianyu." About 70km northeast of Beijing, it is older than the “Badaling” section of the Great Wall and is one of the best preserved, surrounded by lush woodlands and streams. It used to serve as the northern barrier defending the capital and the imperial tombs.



movie of some of the hike...

We also toured the Forbidden City (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Forbidden_City). Built in 1406-1420, it was the Chinese Imperial Palace from the Ming Dynasty to the end of the Qing Dynasty. For almost 50o years it served as the home of the Emperor and his household, as well as the political center of Chinese government. Covering 7,800,000 sq. feet, it would take weeks to absorb its magnitude and historical heft. We saw many of the 980 surviving buildings, but obviously just scratched the surface of all that was there. The Last Emperor (1987, which won 9 Oscars) was the first feature film ever authorized by the People’s Republic of China to be filmed in the Forbidden City (http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0093389/).


Other things I don’t want to forget:

  • Sharpening my intrinsically terrible negotiating skills against the experts at the Silk Market and Hongqiao Markets.
  • Dinners at LAN (food was excellent: Sichuan and Guangdong cuisines prepared slightly Western; French designer Philippe Starck created an interior which one person called an “art gallery jostling for space with a second-hand shop in newly rented premises”) and Moulin Bouloud, a French restaurant in a spectacular setting in the pre-1949 US ambassador’s residence just off Tiananmen Square.
  • What it was like to be cold again after living in Singpore for so long (it was in the 40’s/low 50’s for most of our trip).
  • How to count to 10 on one hand (maybe just Beijingers do this?).
  • Juggling with the hawkers at the Old Hongqiao Market.
  • Wondering where all the people were??? Beijing is China’s capital and second largest city after Shanghai, with a population of 17 million plus… I imagined more crowds, more hustle and bustle, a city teeming with life and people. Maybe I am getting old but we never saw the “hot spots” or crowds I expected.
  • How grateful and lucky I am for the opportunity to travel and see this part of the world and experience a culture so different from my own with great friends.

Sunday, January 24, 2010


It is the opposite which is good to us. –Heraclitus


HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO US!


Turning 4o, living in Asia. Who would have imagined either to be true? Not me. Spent a fantastic weekend celebrating both birthdays (Kevin’s and my own) with the girls and close friends. We are truly blessed.










None are so old as those who have outlived enthusiasm. (Henry David Thoreau)





Friday, December 18, 2009

SEA GAMES 2009, LAOS (South East Asian Games)

I spent 16 days with the Singapore National Team in December, the first half in Phuket (Thailand) for a training camp, and the 2nd half in Vientiane for the competition. Team Singapore returned as SEA Games Champions with their best-ever performance, bringing home 14 gold, 8 silver and 11 bronze medals, 12 SEA Games records, 13 National Records and a happy bunch of athletes with 26 personal best times.

We trained at the British International School in Phuket, and I was able to sneak away for a night of Thai karaoke, a nice dinner with the staff, a couple afternoons of shopping and a real Thai massage.

Once we arrived in Laos, there was less time for play and the focus was on the team and swimming fast. The Lao people I believe did an incredible job of hosting the Games, and I felt like the entire population turned out for Opening Ceremonies (where I am, above, with 2 of the staff). The people we met were generous, warm-hearted and helpful, though I didn't get to veer much outside the Games Village, not counting the open air coffee stalls/food shops adjacent to our dorm. I was lucky enough to have a late dinner out on the Mekong Delta, tasting some of the best grilled fish ever. Go Team Singapore!


at left: the training pool at sunrise in Phuket...at right: the SEA Games competition pool.


from left to right: Coaches Fang, Gary & Jin...Carol & Aloysius... Coaches David and Gary.


Some of the SEA Games swimmers (in the middle are 3 of the 4 of my "group"- Sam, Roanne & Lynette).


Opening Ceremonies from inside the stadium... a late dinner out on the Mekong Delta.


This man is not usually as grumpy as he looks: Bill Sweetenham with Carol and with Peng Siong.

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Happy Birthday girls!

Carmen turns 7 November 1st!

Carmen had an excellent 7th birthday and party. Mom and Dad filled up over 300 water balloons, a friend fulfilled her wish for a Pikachu cake, and she had a great time playing with all her friends from school.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY CARMEN!!!





Tatum turns 5 December 16th!

Tatum was lucky enough to have TWO birthday parties, one before everyone started leaving for
Christmas vacation (and before her mom left for Laos) and her second on her real birthday...
Pictures from both parties below (Grammy included).
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TATUM!!!